Shilo | The Original Pack and Play

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14 Years. Still the One.

As worn by Ruby Rose in Break Free — over 55 million views. The moment everyone goes back to at 3:33. New York Toy Collective pioneered the posable, bendable silicone strap-on dildo and never looked back. 429 reviews. Still the one people come back to.

Want the Full Setup?

Shilo pairs perfectly with our handcrafted leather harness or the Joque — available as a complete kit and priced better than buying separately. Shop the Shilo Kit →

Product Details

• Posable & bendable — holds exactly how you set it, moves with your body
• Harness compatible — fits any standard O-ring harness
• Handmade body-safe dual-density silicone — small batch, never mass-produced
• Insertable length: 6.25" | Girth: 1.5" | Base: 3"
• Includes removable suction cup
• Available in 5 colors: Cashew, Caramel, Hazelnut, Chocolate, Midnight Purple

Already Have a Harness?

Shilo works with any strap harness, but it was really built for ours. Pair it with the Joque or our handcrafted leather strap-on harness for a strap dildo setup that stays put and moves the way you do — or grab the Shilo + Leather Harness Kit or the Shilo + Joque Kit and save vs. buying separately.

Questions We Hear

What is a pack-and-play dildo?

A pack-and-play is a dildo you can wear discreetly and use for play — no swapping gear, no breaking the mood. Shilo invented the category: posable silicone that holds whatever position you set, so you're ready when the moment is. Here's everything to know about pack-and-play.

Why was Shilo created?

Because it didn't exist. Back when the iPad 2 had just come out, our founder remembers thinking: they can put cameras on both sides of a touchscreen, but there's still no skin-tone posable toy I can wear in my pants on the train. Shilo was the answer — a labor of love, and the first posable silicone toy of its kind.

Can you wear Shilo as an everyday packer?

No — Shilo is designed to be worn when it's going to be used. It's for intimacy, pleasure, and affirmation: wear it out when the night is going somewhere. For all-day everyday packing, a dedicated packer like Archer or Jack is the right tool.

How does the posable core work?

Shilo is built in three layers: a soft silicone exterior, a firm inner silicone layer, and a proprietary posable core at the center. Bend it down to wear, position it up to play — it holds exactly how you set it and moves with your body instead of fighting it.

Is Shilo harness-compatible, and what O-ring fits?

Yes — Shilo fits any standard O-ring harness. Its base is 3", so standard rings hold it securely. If you'd rather not think about fit at all, the Shilo Strap-On Set pairs it with a matched harness out of the box.

What size is Shilo?

Insertable length 6.25", girth 1.5", base 3". Middle-of-the-road proportions on purpose — enough presence to feel real, not so much that it's a project.

Is Shilo body-safe silicone?

Yes. Shilo is handmade in small batches from body-safe dual-density silicone — a firmer core with a softer exterior. No mystery blends, no mass production. Here's why dual-density feels different.

What lube should I use with Shilo?

Water-based lube. Silicone-based lube can degrade silicone toys over time, so keep it water-based and reapply as needed. Here's our lube guide.

How do I clean and store Shilo?

Warm water and mild soap after each use, air dry fully, and store it out of direct sunlight — no special case needed. Full care details in our silicone cleaning guide.

What's the difference between Shilo and Carter?

Girth, mostly. Shilo is the original all-arounder at 1.5" girth; Carter is the thicker dual-density option for people who want more — see the Carter kit. Same posable design, same silicone, different presence.

Will Shilo show under fitted clothing?

Honestly — it's fuller than an everyday packer, so fitted clothing will show some profile even bent down. Looser fits handle it easily. If a subtle everyday bulge is the goal, that's packer territory, not pack-and-play.